This is a space for the dreamers, the creatives, the chain & matrix breakers, and magic makers...

This is for the misfits, the unconventional, the black sheep, and those who don't feel like they belong...

This space is for highly sensitive persons, intuitives, and empaths...

This is for the old souls, existentially slanted, philosophically minded, and depth-seeking explorers...

Clinical Psychologist | Neurodivergent-Affirming Care

Hello you beautiful soul! 

I’m Dr. Alexandria “Ali” Hotmer, a licensed clinical psychologist in California specializing in work with neurodivergent adults, including individuals with ADHD, Autism, and Highly Sensitive Persons. As someone who is neurodivergent myself, I bring both professional expertise and lived understanding to this work.

My approach integrates evidence-based psychology with holistic, contemplative perspectives, supporting clients who want practical tools alongside depth, meaning, and nervous-system awareness. Therapy is collaborative, grounded, and tailored to how your mind and body work.

I provide clinical psychotherapy via telehealth to neurodivergent adults in California, with a focus on burnout, overwhelm, identity, relationships, and sustainable self-care. I also offer wellness-based coaching and self-care teachings for individuals seeking reflective and integrative support beyond therapy.

My work is rooted in helping you move toward greater self-trust, regulation, and alignment - not by changing who you are, but by supporting you in living in ways that honor your neurodivergent nervous system.